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Don’t wait for the C-suite to bring sunshine to every exchange

Q: “When I pass certain senior managers in the hall, they walk right by me and avoid eye contact. Sometimes they exhibit aggressive body language, such as failing to adjust their walk path when approaching me. We’ve been introduced, so their lack of common courtesy seems strange. I’m not sure how to interpret their actions or how to react without seeming either too aloof or too forward. What do you think?” New & Ignored

Leave job titles at the door

The worst way to start a meeting? Ask everyone to volunteer their job titles when they introduce themselves. Titles remind others immediately of office status and can be intimidating when what you want is a real group atmosphere of equality and camaraderie.

Don’t let a break derail your career

Maybe you want to take a few months off to care for an ailing relative, to take a longer career break to raise a family or to realize your dream of hiking the Appalachian Trail now, rather than when you retire. When work becomes incompatible with the rest of your life, and you take a leave of absence from the job, don’t drop your career in the dust.

Want to make poor performance last forever? Cover for it

Q: “After asking my boss for additional help, I was thrilled when he hired a young man in his early twenties. My excitement was short-lived, because ‘Jeff’ is both inexperienced and lazy. Even though I’m the office manager, Jeff reports directly to my boss. I have all the responsibility for his work, but no authority over him. I got tired of nagging and correcting his errors, so now I’m doing most of his work myself. After other employees began complaining, I finally mentioned Jeff’s behavior to my boss. However, he didn’t believe a word I said. What do I do now?”  Sick of Jeff