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When they’re dragging their feet just a little

Three subtle, polite phrases to encourage co-workers to give you what they promised: “A quick check to see if we’re on track to deliver XYZ by …” “As we agreed on June 12 …” “Resending this message in case it got buried in your inbox. Please respond by …”

When is it too soon—or too late—to thwart bullying?

Question: “I’ve told myself that if my boss takes a very bullying tone to me again, I’ll speak up about it. But in the heat of the moment, I tend to weaken and not defend myself from it. Should I report his actions to someone immediately after it happens, or should I wait till I cool down so I get a better perspective and have notes? If I confront him directly, should I come back to his office sometime after it’s over and we’ve both settled down, or deal with the issue right away and risk an escalating argument? It’s not so much a question of if I try to put an end to this; it’s when.” – Anonymous Admin

Stop using !!!! so much

You might not think a simple punctuation mark matters. However, if you overuse exclamation points, you can undermine your professionalism—and even make you look a little unhinged. Here are some basic rules to follow.

Get serious with meeting stragglers

OK, this might seem a little harsh, but if your meetings suffer from perpetual late stragglers, here is solution to try: Close and lock—yes, lock!—the door to the meeting room at the precise start time. That will send a silent, not-so-subtle message to latecomers. Once a tardy attendee has to make an embarrassing public entrance […]

Do these new manager blues feel familiar?

Q: “My boyfriend, ‘Doug,’ was recently promoted, but he’s having a lot of problems. He is now supervising his former boss, who is unhappy about being demoted. On top of that, the assistant manager applied for the job and resents the fact that Doug was selected. Their negative attitudes have spread to other employees, who are becoming insubordinate. Doug is expected to clean up this department, which is a complete mess. However, he has no management experience, and these toxic people seem to feel they can run all over him. He is feeling really stressed out. Do you have any advice?”