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Category: Personal Development

Who’s in your kitchen cabinet?

Writer Morra Aarons-Mele is a believer in having a fully stocked “kitchen cabinet,” meaning a digital sisterhood of subject-matter experts and confidantes. With your kitchen cabinet, you feel comfortable sharing doubts and vulnerabilities, whereas you wouldn’t express these things to your exec, your mentor or even the person in the cubicle next to yours.

It’s true: We can be heroes

Are there people you look up to, who inspire you? Your heroes can comfort you, guide you, advise you, help you through challenging times and also—let’s face it—make you feel kind of inadequate. Megan Day, author of New Mom, New Job, proposes an exercise in her book.

How do you rate on the realness scale?

Chris Hopwood of the University of California, Davis has created a realness test to measure one’s ability for acting the same way on the outside as they feel on the inside, an important component of authenticity and the ability to defeat our own neuroses.

How to keep your energy bank filled

We all occasionally struggle with our energy levels. You only have so much of it, and it’s not enough to accomplish everything. It can help to use a metaphor and picture your energy as a bank account: the “energy bank,” as it’s sometimes referred to. You must understand your budget and work within its means.

Ageism and communication technology

While a good communications policy can help set boundaries and give guidance, a little examination of our own biases toward certain types of electronic communications can go a long way to giving value and being seen as valuable in our careers.