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Break your addiction to weak-kneed words

“I’m sorry to bother you … Is it OK if I ask you a question? … I’m not an expert but I think it’s important … Sorry again …” Don’t demean or lessen yourself by filling your speech or your email with apologies for intruding or presuming. You’re not “just” anything—put yourself on equal terms […]

Suddenly cut out of high-level affairs: Is it a warning sign?

Q: “After my manager resigned, I began reporting directly to the vice president of our department. For the past few months, she has praised my outstanding performance and frequently asked for my advice. A few weeks ago, she hired a new manager who is likely to become my boss. She is now consulting him instead of me. I have also been removed from the weekly meetings. No one has told me what’s going on, so I’m becoming concerned about my future. Does this situation sound normal?” On the Outside